Nathan next to the marble run at Children's Hospital, finally heading home after spinal fusion surgery.

It was 3:00am, and I was in a spiritual crisis.  Tears were trailing down Nathan’s temples as he lay in a hospital bed at Children’s Hospital in New Orleans; he was fighting pain and trying to get used to his new body cast.  It had only been a year since his open heart surgery in Michigan.  Now I was watching him struggle to recover from spinal fusion surgery.  Doubt was creeping in–I was wondering how God could let this happen again, and I felt helpless and abandoned.

While I was dabbing his tears with a wadded piece of tissue, Nathan looked at me and quietly said, “Mom, I remember the principle of finders keepers.”

“Finders keepers?” I repeated with confusion.  Maybe he was delirious–talking nonsense, I thought.

Then Nathan said something I will never forget:  “God says, ‘I will never leave you; I will never forsake you.’  When you find God, you get to keep Him.”

I was too stunned to respond.  Such faith coming from a six-year-old.  He stared at me for a moment, then closed his eyes, leaving the skin at his brows to soften and settle.  Seems he had finally succumbed to his pain medication and had mercifully drifted off to sleep.  I don’t think any pastor has preached a sermon that bowled me over as much as Nathan did that night.

[Many thanks to Mrs. Kay VanderLey.  I learned weeks later that she taught Nathan the "principle of finders keepers" during Sunday School at Grace Memorial Baptist Church.]

Here are a few special stories about Nathan:  Nathan’s Prayer, Before the Back Surgery, and Reminiscing:  Nathan Buys the Shark Professional Cordless Sweeper.

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2 Comments on The Principle of Finders Keepers

  1. mizjan says:

    I remember that picture of Nathan that you sent me, and his comment about “finders, keepers”! What wonderful insight from a six year (then)old child. As the Bible says, “a little child shall lead them”. We all could use more of that child like faith, couldn’t we? He is such a precious little boy. I’m sure in years to come, all of these stories and pictures and memories that you are compiling will mean even more to him. Happy Easter!

  2. Karen says:

    It’s true–”a little child will lead them”–and that includes the little ones we see every day as well as the little one that came out of Bethlehem.

    Happy Easter to you, too, Mizjan!

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